Sunday, April 08, 2007

Ideal's baby




His mother’s name was Mary. Ideal? What more fitting label for them both?

When I discovered Him on Ebay, time telescoped to my eighth Christmas, when I was seven, to my much beloved Princess Mary. I found her Ebay twin, bringing this Mary and her baby (two of them, actually) home to people my grandchildren’s Nativity, to welcome a new millennium.

Revlon ballerina angels. Another maker’s Bob (or was it Bill?) now-known-as-Joseph. A shabby chic lop-rockered green wicker cradle, gardener’s moss for mattress. Simple homemade cloaks, cords to anchor them to brows and waist, feet bare...

I was curious about this Ideal baby. How had I missed meeting Him all those years of being a child, of having children of my own? I bought a book, an Ebay find, an Ideal history. I read.

In 1956, Ideal created millions of dolls in the image of our infant Savior—some Protestant, some Catholic. (Wasn’t He born a Jew?) Churches approved, I’m told.

The public wasn’t buying. Thousands of overstocked babies. Ideal in crisis, financial ruin on the horizon. One salesman’s solution? Sell the babies, all bids accepted, no questions asked.

Did you know that, in the depths of the gray Atlantic off the coast of Hatteras, there’s a breakwater made, at least in part, of those babies no one wanted? Sacrilege? I thought so.

I had not thought of burial at sea. I had not thought of the Graveyard of the Atlantic. I had not thought beyond the seemingly callous, convenient disposal of something sacred.

Burial at sea is for all time. Although the dolls were not scattered (much as Catholic tradition does not sanction the scattering of human remains), all the Atlantic is now their grave.

What blessing, what honor for men and women whose remains have also been committed to the deep!

[This story is for Kira Rose who, like her Grandmommy, loves dolls. In this photo (Christmas 2006) she is sharing the Christmas story with her cousin, Michael. In some small way, around or under or through his obvious enchantment with his handmedownbutreal cell phone, I know that Michael is richer because of Kira’s storytelling.]
Reference:
Izen, Judith (1999). Collector's Guide to Ideal Dolls: Identification & Values (Second Edition). Paducah, KY: Collector Books.

Saturday, April 07, 2007

Arachnid


All those years of
Rearranging two decks of
Always and forever
Challenging cards
Has
Never dulled the elation
I feel when the game is
Done! I won!
* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *
13 Ways of Looking at Arachnid


solitary
solitaire

a waste of time

therapeutic
prime processing time
Alzheimer’s prevention

video card death sentence

perfect score=1000 points

14 years of addiction

104 cards, two decks, four suits

599 won-and-saved perfect score games (last four years)

challenging all the same
but best left at home…

Friday, April 06, 2007

How to Be Michael’s “Nonny”


Answer his million and one questions
Let him retell his life
Know that he never forgets
Show him how to use your digital camera
Bring the camera when you visit
Don’t forget
Give him your old cell phone AND its charger
Let him hold your new cell phone
Let him show you the buttons he’s not supposed to push
Keep your cell phone on because he asked...
and let him know that’s why
Honor his routines
Strap him in
but never make him clean his plate
Know that he loves birthday cakes
Let him ice Cassie’s...
Drink the coffee he “makes” for you—“again!” “again!” “again!”
Notice his “big boy” underwear
and “big boy” booster seat
and “big boy” bed
Tell him you’re proud (he says “Cassie is too!”)
Let him climb the stairs
Know that he forgets to be careful...
Help him with his clothes—taking off and putting on
Let him pick them out
Help him use the potty
Find his stool
Let him wash his hands all by himself
Walk with him as he rides his tricycle
Don’t sit down with Cassie
Don’t notice he hasn’t figured out the pedals
Know that he wants to coast downhill backwards
Take Cassie off his tricycle when he tells you she isn’t big enough
Read to him—“again!” “again!” “again!”
Bring him books and more books and many more books and...
Watch DVDs with him—“again!” “again!” “again!”
and show him which button is “Play” and
Answer his million and one questions
Never leave without a good-bye hug...





[This was also an unintentional sidetrip in my multigenre exploration of play/simple pleasures. Michael is, in so many ways, my connection to the simple pleasures of childhood...]

Ravensburger (aka Bid Time Return)

JP: So, RT, I guess you’re going to glue me together and frame me?
RT: And where exactly do you think I might hang a gaudy landscape such as you?
JP: You were comfortable enough using me as your dining room centerpiece the last two years!
RT: Covered you up when company came for dinner, if you’ll remember.
JP: One long hot week in July!


I so love the challenge of a new jigsaw puzzle! Have so since memory began…
Ravensburger was grounds for divorce though.
From puzzles, that is.
Well, almost…

We often gift each other with similar, sometimes identical, gifts in my family. Every Christmas counts at least one package with that telltale dry rattle even the youngest among us recognize. Christmas 2004 was no exception.

I honestly can’t remember if I gave anyone a puzzle that Christmas but I do remember discovering the puzzle roll-ups and thinking how convenient that would be now that there were no spare puzzle tables in our lives, now that every flat surface in our homes were needed when setting places at mealtimes for our ever-growing extended family. I bought a puzzle roll-up for Kimberly.

And Kimberly bought a puzzle roll-up for me. A sheet of green felt—generous enough to cover my dining room table, leaves and all. Spacious enough to accommodate, with inches to spare, the 3,000 piece Ravensburger spring azalea scene that came with it. 3,000 pieces!!! I was intrigued. My personal best was 1,500 but I’d had help with that. Could I solo this challenge?

When company left—New Year’s 2005 had dawned—I opened Pandora’s box. Something to while away dull January and February. Surely I’d be done by spring… Not!

The bottle of glue—why puzzles need their own kind I haven’t yet figured—sat on a nearby shelf, undisturbed, all that year. When company came, we ate in other rooms, at other tables, or, sometimes, spread placemats over the few pieces that had found and held fast to their mates.

That Christmas, 2005, I rolled the stillfarfromcomplete puzzle up in its felt shroud, tucked it out of sight in one of the new cabinets purchased for the tuckingoutofsight of noteveryday things. That Christmas, 2005, I had an awful idea, a get-even idea. Kimberly discovered her own 3000-piece Ravensburger Pandora’s box under my tree.

When company left—New Year’s 2006 had dawned—I unrolled the soft green shroud. So much of my work undone in all that rolling and unrolling... By summer, I vowed.

When company came—a week in hot July—we covered blue water, magenta azaleas, a border that had been redone twice over and more until every fit was fitting—with blue linen. Out of sight. Out of mind. Until…

Thanksgiving 2006. So close and yet so far away, that lastpieceinitsplace jubilation. Please! By Christmas? Please!!!

JP: OK, so it’s December 27th. And what of it?
RT: When they told me three pieces were missing, I just had to check on dinner…
JP: Two were cowering under the felt.
RT: I know. I heard. But that last piece???
JP: Can’t remember where they finally found it… Wasn’t my doing, you know.
RT: They saved it for me. Brought their cameras in. Don’t you love the angle of this one?
JP: You look almost gleeful, pretending to be all that young again…
RT: If you could only read my mind…
JP: Thinking where to hang your latest accomplishment, your masterpiece?
RT: Not exactly…………….
JP: I’ve grown accustomed to this room, soft lighting, brocade walls…
RT: Turn back the clock, JP. 3000 bits of priceless time. Time foreverlost…
JP: What then…
RT: Bid time return? scccrrrrruuuuuuuuuuuunnnnnnnnnnchhhhhhhhh!
JP: NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooo……

Contrails...


I was supposed to be working on a poem for my multigenre project, right? My theme was play, as in a kind of history of my family's (sometimes just my own) pursuit of leisure. Simple pleasures would be the subtitle...

I was writing out of doors, trying out the idea of a six-room poem, seated on a gazebo (or was it a pergola?) floor. A crisp blue February sky and memory of contrail-watching the week before when visiting my mother who was recovering from surgery.

Is contrail-watching a kind of play, a simple pleasure? I'm not sure...yet. I just know that in this last year I've noticed more contrails, discovered more rainbows, than in a very long time...

Sharing this work in progress with Idon'twannabeapoet adolescents the last couple of months has been a pleasure, as have the poems they have crafted in spite of themselves... Is this about play? Playing with words, maybe...

Here goes...



Friday, March 30, 2007

The Fab Five?!

Geocaching on a Lake Murray Island--July 2006 Mason, Kira, Kelsey, Garrett, and Campbell
A Geocaching Glossary

camouflage: sticks, bark, rocks. logs, vegetation, and/or paint resembling these used to hide a cache from view
challenge: what must geocachers negotiate to locate the cache? can be physical (terrain) or mental (multi-caches, codes, camouflage)
compass: what the navigation screen of a lower-end GPS (like a Garmin eTrex) is not
container: what will geocachers find when they reach the posted coordinates? size and contents should be appropriate to the challenges involved in finding it
coordinates: longitude and latitude of the geocache’s or the geocacher’s location
even or up: how to trade one item in a cache for another
geocaching: sport whose name is derived from geo-earth, from “the practice that mountain men had of ‘caching’ goods in hiding spots for later use, ” and from memory caching in computers
GPS: Global Positioning System or a receiver that defines a location in terms of its latitude and longitude by calculating the time difference at that location for signals from different satellites
location: where are you taking the geocachers? can be remote, recreational, or in the midst of everyday life? can be scenic, meaningful, or simply fun to visit
logbook: where you record your visit; for microcaches, bring your own pen
maintenance: what creators of caches should assume responsibility for
micros: very small caches
multicaches: a series of caches in different locations
N 45 17.460 W 122 24.800: the waypoint of the first ever geocache (May 3, 2000)
permission: what you need to place a cache on private or public land
poison ivy: one of the many natural obstacles geocachers encounter during their search
stealth: the challenge of locating a cache in a public place without being observed doing so
terrain: difficulty rating from from ˜ (handicap accessible) to ˜˜˜˜˜ (requires special equipment to access)
travel bug: “Simply put, a Groundspeak Travel Bug is a trackable tag that you attach to an item. This allows you to track your item on Geocaching.com. The item becomes a hitchhiker that is carried from cache to cache (or person to person) in the real world and you can follow its progress online.”
tree cover: one of the many natural obstacles GPS users encounter during their search
watertight: characteristic of most cache containers
waypoint: longitude and latitude coordinates (stored in a GPS) for a given location such as HOME, the cache, on any point along the way

big brother


Little did he know how becoming a big brother would change his life...

Michael and Cassie
July 28, 2006















Cassie's first doll was a gift from her big brother on the day she was born...

Saturday, June 10, 2006

when he was two...



Michael in his toy box.